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As Idaho's program prepares to shut down, Florida's paid relative caregiver program is about to begin. I received a letter in the mail this past week which explained who was eligible to be paid and the necessary training and employment the relative caregiver would have to go through. It would be CNA training and CNA pay.

Let me say, that IN MANY WAYS, THIS IS A WIN FOR FAMILIES AND I AM HAPPY FOR MY FELLOW SPECIAL NEEDS CAREGIVERS. I know this paid family caregiver program is a life-saver for many, but FOR MY SITUATION, it's not.

In Florida, if a child has certain medical equipment in their body, specifically any type of feeding tube, (G, J, GJ, NG, NJ,) or a tracheostomy (trach), the only employed staff who can provide home nursing care through an agency MUST BE AN LPN or HIGHER CERTIFIED NURSE.

My daughter qualifies for a nurse. Also, my body and mind have taken a brutal beating from the years of unsupported caregiving done before my daughter qualified for home health nursing. Now, that I have nursing help, I want my daughter to get as many nursing hours she qualifies for from the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid. I need time to recover, heal, get some major self-care done, and see my own physicians who I haven't seen in the last 3 years. I kinda feel like if I was to perform as a paid family caregiver for a certain number of hours per week, then the number of agency nursing hours my child gets approved for may be decreased. I also wonder if I would be allowed to participate in the program because as an employee, I WOULD BE CREDENTIALED AS A CNA, NOT AN LPN OR HIGHER. Does this program make an exception to that rule?

We, as caregiver parents and relatives are already misunderstood and overlooked when it comes to understanding HOW INVOLVED CAREGIVING IS in the public eye. So, we work a shift and then we are off the clock, but providing the same care until the next "shift" and not getting a break in between?! Hearing the phrase, "Well, you do it anyway, you might as well get paid for it," just minimizes the depth of attention required, and the physical and emotional stamina required when caring for your child with disabilities around the clock.

The biggest positive thing from this is the program provides some income for the family members who probably had to give up their careers to fulfill the primary caregiver roles. I would rather the funds from the paid caregiver program be used to pay home health nurses BETTER WAGES and OFFER THEM GOOD BENEFITS, so home health becomes a more attractive nursing field and attracts better qualified nurses. Use the funds to create an incentive program to attract nurses to home health. Home health is the lowest paying nursing field in the nursing sector.

As for me, I will ALWAYS BE MY GIRL'S CAREGIVER--paid by an agency or not. However, I would like to rejoin the workforce for what I went to school for and becoming a CNA was not it. I need all CNAs, LPNs, and RNs, please report for duty at your nearest home health agency. There's lots of moms and dad's who DESPERATELY need you to help their kids remain in their own homes. NURSES, YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN OUR HEROS.

Best Regards to ALL of my Fellow Warrior Parents and Caregivers,

Denie and Princess M (T9P, T9M, Dandy-Walker Syndrome) 💜🦋✝️🙏

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